LOVERS AND OTHER STRANGERS (1970) is a favorite rom-com of mine that I always think of watching on Valentine’s Day, but usually too late to actually do it. This year, I made it.
This is based on a stage play collecting several different one-scene skits. Here, however, they’re woven into a coherent hole as everyone’s related to everyone else, all gathered together for the wedding of Mike and Susan (Michael Brandon, Bonnie Bedelia). Her father (Gig Young, excellent in the role) is cheating on her mom (Cloris Leachman) with Susan’s aunt (Anne Jackson); her sister Wilma (Anne Meara) is getting sexually frustrated with her husband (Harry Guardino); Michael’s brother Richie (Joseph Hindy) is divorcing his wife Joan (Diane Keaton) and their parents (Richard Castellano, Bea Arthur) can’t understand it — so the marriage didn’t work out, you can’t end it just like that!!
The film shows it’s age in some ways. It’s an era when no-fault divorce was new (and divorce itself was still a touchy subject — though America has always been a divorce nation) and living together was a sin; when TYG and watched it a decade ago, she didn’t pick up that Mike’s male roommate was a lie he’d made up to hide that Susan was his roommate.
The emotional core, however, holds up well. Young’s slick dodging over commitment. Castellano and Arthur expressing their sad view of marriage. Michael listening to their stories about other bad marriages who didn’t divorce and finally exploding (“I don’t want someone telling a horrible story about us that ends with ‘but they’re still together.”). Overall it’s a charmer. “If you let ten years of love end in a bathroom, I’ll lose all respect for myself.”
Returning to that Christmas gift collection of Fritz Lang films — THE WANDERING SHADOW (1920) has a woman fleeing into the mountains to escape a vengeful pursuer. We eventually learn this is the outcome of an insanely melodramatic backstory involving free love, a fake marriage, an inheritance and more. Overwrought though it is, it looks and watches way better than Harakiri (reviewed at the link), whether that’s Lang learning on the job or just being more at home with German material. “For your support and assistance I am eternally in your debt, but I must carry my cross alone.”



















