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Nobody knows what it’s like — to be the sad dog

Due to Plushie’s leg problems I often wind up sitting in the cage so he can snuggle with me. As I’m Trixie’s human, she’s not happy about this.

I do my best to give her extra snuggles when we’re sitting together.

Plushie’s surgery was Tuesday. I took it off and tackled various odds and ends as I couldn’t get my head in the game for any writing. Happily Plushie came through it like a trooper. It was necessary too, as the surgeon cleared out a couple of other problems in the knee area. Oh, and our insurer came across and will cover around 90 percent. Yay.

Wednesday was a rough day; if I hadn’t been working on a Local Reporter story about Carrboro city council I’d probably have taken that one off too. The big problem was that Plushie cannot be allowed to lick his wound. They gave us a sleeve to put on the leg and he reacted very aggressively to having the bad place touched, almost biting TYG. Worse, we have to take it off when he goes out, then put it back on again. Eventually we resolved things simply by switching to the cone of shame. He can’t get the leg and he’s much more compliant. He’s also on heavy drugs so in between meals or walks, he largely dozes and I can sit with Trixie.

Other than Plush Dudley, what’s up? Well, the week started on a disappointing note. I’d made an appointment to donate blood as soon as I was able (there’s a four-month wait between power red donations). It was a close place so I got there with plenty of time, the line moved fast, I was hooked up … and then the phlebotomist kept telling me I was squeezing too hard (they have us squeeze a sponge strip to keep the blood going) and my muscles were interfering. And that I was moving my arm, same problem. Sure enough, the machine got part way through the process, then stopped. I suggested trying again; the rather pissed off phlebotomist told me no, I’d used up my slot and would have to wait the usual four months, event though I’d barely donated.

I left in a bad mood. I’ve never had that motion problem before; have I developed some tic that’s causing a problem? Are my veins scarring over enough that even slight motion is a problem? Either of these is possible, though it’s also possible my phlebotomist screwed up in some fashion.

Sunday, though, TYG and I took a nice walk around a nearby lake, though the water was low.

The work week was good. Website glitches stopped me posting anything at Atomic Junk Shop but my two Local Reporter stories from last week are up, one about a 55-year-old Carrboro daycare center and one on Carrboro’s challenges to development.

And then there was Jekyll and Hyde. I’ve now got a solid rough draft of 60,000 words. There’s more to come but realizing how much writing I’ve done makes me feel much better about my progress. Still more work ahead, of course, but I’ll get there.

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Jean’s country store: another date with TYG

Every week we take our dogs to Peak Paws near Apex (about a 40 minute drive) for physical rehab (yes, we’re that kind of dog parent). The route takes us by Jean’s Neighborhood Market, a very self-consciously country store with tractors around it.

The store turned out surprisingly fun. Lots of sweets and baked goods, some coffee and tea from local companies (I picked up a blend of black tea with yaupon, a caffeinated native North American plant used in a ritual drink by some indigenous cultures). A pumpkin pie that tasted delicious. Local produce (we didn’t get any this time but we may go back). And then stuff like this.

If that wasn’t fun enough look what we saw walking alongside the road on our drive out.

It was a most satisfactory date.

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Flower power

TYG recently stuck a rose out back on the remains of our old compost pile, not really thinking anything would happen. But it did!

Out front, these pink flowers around our mailbox have thrived longer than we expected.

The red ones expired in a recent storm but they had a good long run first.

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Uncommon clay

For a recent afternoon date, I suggested TYG and I take in an exhibit at the Ackland Museum collecting ceramic and clay work by Japanese women. I wasn’t sure it would be that good but the Ackland’s a fun small museum, founded by the wealth of this dude (from a slave-owning family).

Yes, that’s his real tomb.

The photo advertising the exhibit highlighted this yellow piece — which I realized when I saw it up close is ceramics, not fabric.

This one stood out because the glaze is remarkable. That’s not a reflection you see on it, it’s something in the glaze itself (I’m not sure it comes across in photos).

Now, here’s some more photos.

Yes, those were ceramics too.

I’m impressed as hell.

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I’ve now been married fourteen years

Pretty remarkable considering it took me five decades to meet TYG. And I’d sadly accepted by the time I met her that I’d never end up with anyone. I’m glad I was wrong.

It’s been a good year for us, despite all the usual problems people deal with in the modern world (repairs, health, puppy health, money, etc.). I’m not sure if it’s the weekly dates we’ve been going on since Durham opened up post-pandemic or that every year we accumulate more time with each other but we seem closer. I feel happier (and I was quite happy in our marriage before). Last week we went and saw Dogma on the big screen; Sunday we had brunch at a local Indian restaurant.

Here are some photos I’ve been meaning to post for months, from a fundraiser we went to for the Chamber Orchestra of the Triangle last year (the second time I’ve posted them late). It’s at Whitehall Antiques, hence the selection of pretties.

I feel incredibly lucky and blessed.

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Feed me, Seymour!

No movies last weekend, what with being at Ravencon and all, but the previous weekend TYG took me to Little Shop of Horrors by the local Playmakers theatre company. The tickets were a Christmas present, and the show proved well worth waiting for.

As you probably know, this was a 1980s musical inspired by Roger Corman’s low-budget SF comedy movie, Little Shop of Horrors, built around the time-honored concept of “what if a plant ate us instead of vice-versa?” The play, I think, is way better than the original film (the musical would, of course, return to the screen with Rick Moranis, Ellen Greene and Steve Martin among the cast).

Our protagonist Seymour, is an orphan raised and used as an indentured servant in Mushnik’s skid row flower shop. An idea TYG mocked — who goes to skid row to buy flowers? — and sure enough, Mushnik makes the same point early on. Things turn around when Seymour acquires the strange, exotic flower … but the only way to feed it is with human blood. Need I say things take a dark turn?

This was a well-done production, great-looking set and some amazing singers in the cast. Where the original show and movie were 1950s-set, this opted for the 1970s, arguing it’s a parallel for our current era (corrupt president, economy floundering, intense struggles over white male supremacy), not that that affects the show any. This gave it a different visual look from other versions but it did make most of the references in “Somewhere That’s Green” weirdly anachronistic (Leavittown! A “big 12-inch TV screen!”). That’s a minor flaw in an excellent production — even TYG liked it and she’s not a musical theater person. “Downtown, where the men are drips/Downtown, where they tear your slips!/Downtown, where relationships/are no-go!”

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I never promised you a rose garden — wait, I did.

Several years back I promised TYG a rose bush for Valentine’s Day or our anniversary (I’m not sure). However whenever rose-planting season rolled around, she was too busy at work to go rose shopping. Finally, back in 2023, we planted one. This year, it bloomed again —

— but the flowers weighed down the stems which is bad, I gather. This week TYG trimmed them off and brought them inside.

They smell nice too.

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I have a lot to be thankful for

I have known TYG 16 years. When I met her I was convinced I’d never find love (my history argued against it) and I’d never have real financial comfort (the newspaper chain I worked for was one cheap mother).

Now I have a wonderful wife, two amazing dogs, two cats. A house instead of an apartment. I’m more thankful than I can say.

I have no idea what shape we’ll all be in after President 47’s tenure. Even without that, nothing is for granted: one fall, one blood clot, the wrong virus getting into our systems and blammo, it’s done. I’ve come close enough often enough to appreciate that.

While I have no intention of checking out any time soon, at my age I really appreciate that I’ve been blessed (or lucky, depending on your worldview). I don’t take it for granted, ever.

I hope all y’all reading this have something wonderful to be thankful for in your own lives.

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Another date, another museum, more photos

A few weeks back TYG and I made one of our visits to the North Carolina Museum of Art to catch their Venetian and Samurai exhibits. They also had an interesting display of portraiture, grouping classic art with more recent images.

There was samurai armor —

And a sword. Writing on the tang was normal — the hilt would be replaced several times over the decades as the sword was inherited by new generations.

In the Venetian exhibit we saw a Titian

And what high heels looked like in Venetian times.

I’ll wrap up with Archipenko’s sculpture, Blue Dancer. It’s neat.

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Butterfly kisses

As I mentioned last week, TYG and I went on a trip to Durham’s Museum of Life and Science the weekend before last. Here are the photos from their impressive butterfly house.

Way cool, huh?

#SFWApro.

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