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Jean’s country store: another date with TYG

Every week we take our dogs to Peak Paws near Apex (about a 40 minute drive) for physical rehab (yes, we’re that kind of dog parent). The route takes us by Jean’s Neighborhood Market, a very self-consciously country store with tractors around it.

The store turned out surprisingly fun. Lots of sweets and baked goods, some coffee and tea from local companies (I picked up a blend of black tea with yaupon, a caffeinated native North American plant used in a ritual drink by some indigenous cultures). A pumpkin pie that tasted delicious. Local produce (we didn’t get any this time but we may go back). And then stuff like this.

If that wasn’t fun enough look what we saw walking alongside the road on our drive out.

It was a most satisfactory date.

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Flower power

TYG recently stuck a rose out back on the remains of our old compost pile, not really thinking anything would happen. But it did!

Out front, these pink flowers around our mailbox have thrived longer than we expected.

The red ones expired in a recent storm but they had a good long run first.

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Uncommon clay

For a recent afternoon date, I suggested TYG and I take in an exhibit at the Ackland Museum collecting ceramic and clay work by Japanese women. I wasn’t sure it would be that good but the Ackland’s a fun small museum, founded by the wealth of this dude (from a slave-owning family).

Yes, that’s his real tomb.

The photo advertising the exhibit highlighted this yellow piece β€” which I realized when I saw it up close is ceramics, not fabric.

This one stood out because the glaze is remarkable. That’s not a reflection you see on it, it’s something in the glaze itself (I’m not sure it comes across in photos).

Now, here’s some more photos.

Yes, those were ceramics too.

I’m impressed as hell.

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I’ve now been married fourteen years

Pretty remarkable considering it took me five decades to meet TYG. And I’d sadly accepted by the time I met her that I’d never end up with anyone. I’m glad I was wrong.

It’s been a good year for us, despite all the usual problems people deal with in the modern world (repairs, health, puppy health, money, etc.). I’m not sure if it’s the weekly dates we’ve been going on since Durham opened up post-pandemic or that every year we accumulate more time with each other but we seem closer. I feel happier (and I was quite happy in our marriage before). Last week we went and saw Dogma on the big screen; Sunday we had brunch at a local Indian restaurant.

Here are some photos I’ve been meaning to post for months, from a fundraiser we went to for the Chamber Orchestra of the Triangle last year (the second time I’ve posted them late). It’s at Whitehall Antiques, hence the selection of pretties.

I feel incredibly lucky and blessed.

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Feed me, Seymour!

No movies last weekend, what with being at Ravencon and all, but the previous weekend TYG took me to Little Shop of Horrors by the local Playmakers theatre company. The tickets were a Christmas present, and the show proved well worth waiting for.

As you probably know, this was a 1980s musical inspired by Roger Corman’s low-budget SF comedy movie, Little Shop of Horrors, built around the time-honored concept of “what if a plant ate us instead of vice-versa?” The play, I think, is way better than the original film (the musical would, of course, return to the screen with Rick Moranis, Ellen Greene and Steve Martin among the cast).

Our protagonist Seymour, is an orphan raised and used as an indentured servant in Mushnik’s skid row flower shop. An idea TYG mocked β€” who goes to skid row to buy flowers? β€” and sure enough, Mushnik makes the same point early on. Things turn around when Seymour acquires the strange, exotic flower … but the only way to feed it is with human blood. Need I say things take a dark turn?

This was a well-done production, great-looking set and some amazing singers in the cast. Where the original show and movie were 1950s-set, this opted for the 1970s, arguing it’s a parallel for our current era (corrupt president, economy floundering, intense struggles over white male supremacy), not that that affects the show any. This gave it a different visual look from other versions but it did make most of the references in “Somewhere That’s Green” weirdly anachronistic (Leavittown! A “big 12-inch TV screen!”). That’s a minor flaw in an excellent production β€” even TYG liked it and she’s not a musical theater person. β€œDowntown, where the men are drips/Downtown, where they tear your slips!/Downtown, where relationships/are no-go!”

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I never promised you a rose garden β€” wait, I did.

Several years back I promised TYG a rose bush for Valentine’s Day or our anniversary (I’m not sure). However whenever rose-planting season rolled around, she was too busy at work to go rose shopping. Finally, back in 2023, we planted one. This year, it bloomed again β€”

β€” but the flowers weighed down the stems which is bad, I gather. This week TYG trimmed them off and brought them inside.

They smell nice too.

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I have a lot to be thankful for

I have known TYG 16 years. When I met her I was convinced I’d never find love (my history argued against it) and I’d never have real financial comfort (the newspaper chain I worked for was one cheap mother).

Now I have a wonderful wife, two amazing dogs, two cats. A house instead of an apartment. I’m more thankful than I can say.

I have no idea what shape we’ll all be in after President 47’s tenure. Even without that, nothing is for granted: one fall, one blood clot, the wrong virus getting into our systems and blammo, it’s done. I’ve come close enough often enough to appreciate that.

While I have no intention of checking out any time soon, at my age I really appreciate that I’ve been blessed (or lucky, depending on your worldview). I don’t take it for granted, ever.

I hope all y’all reading this have something wonderful to be thankful for in your own lives.

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Another date, another museum, more photos

A few weeks back TYG and I made one of our visits to the North Carolina Museum of Art to catch their Venetian and Samurai exhibits. They also had an interesting display of portraiture, grouping classic art with more recent images.

There was samurai armor β€”

And a sword. Writing on the tang was normal β€” the hilt would be replaced several times over the decades as the sword was inherited by new generations.

In the Venetian exhibit we saw a Titian

And what high heels looked like in Venetian times.

I’ll wrap up with Archipenko’s sculpture, Blue Dancer. It’s neat.

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Butterfly kisses

As I mentioned last week, TYG and I went on a trip to Durham’s Museum of Life and Science the weekend before last. Here are the photos from their impressive butterfly house.

Way cool, huh?

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A middle-of-the-road week to wrap up September

Last weekend was, well, odd. We had two social events (rare for us), a vegan potluck (revived after a long hiatus) and a trip to the Durham Life and Science Center, a cool museum neither I nor TYG had ever been to before. It has an awesome butterfly garden (photos to follow), alpacas β€”

β€”and tortoises β€”

β€” and red wolves.

Normally I’m very organized about my time, even my down time. Last weekend, maybe because we had so much to do, I just kicked back and floated the rest of the time. Felt good. Must try more of it.

Monday I worked on Jekyll and Hyde, writing my thoughts about the 1932 and 1941 versions (which I blogged about Wednesday). I also watched a string of cartoons and a couple of short from the early 1930s through 1950 (reviews to come soon). It’s way easier to find things like that online than it used to be, which is great for my work.

The rest of Tuesday I worked on Southern Discomfort. The work went well but I’d really hoped to be much further along than I am. Oh well, it’s not like anyone’s breathing down my neck to finish (and I still need to get my cover design). Wednesday it was The Local Reporter. I’d hoped to skip this week after turning in three stories last week but there was a Carrboro council meeting so no. My story on a local stop sign isn’t gripping, but I think did a good job discussing the big-picture aspects of how such traffic-safety items get approved.

Today was mostly devoted to correcting the Ceaseless Way manuscript. As usual it sucked up more time than I wanted but it’s almost done.

I turned in one Atomic Junk Shop article yesterday, on Barry Windsor-Smith’s Daredevil art.

And that was the week. Well, plus Monday I was doing my exercises in the evening and wound up seriously paining my lower back/left hip. I suspect my failure to stretch regularly is at fault; it’s really hard to do around the pets as they interpret yoga and stretching as body language for “come and snuggle!” I need to get better about that.

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