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Madcap Mensa weekend 2025

March 7 I once again trekked down to Greenville SC to participate in Piedmont Area Mensa’s regional gathering (here’s a link to last year’s event). I went solo as TYG and I don’t travel together any more — our pups need too much care to trust a dog-sitter — and unlike last year, didn’t fly. That meant a four-hour drive, the first time I’ve driven that far since probably pre-pandemic. I was a little nervous but it went fine. Below, my hotel room window

This year the theme was Monty Python so I gave a talk on the origins and history of Monty Python’s Flying Circus. I had my notes emailed to me so I could check them on my phone. When I got up I opened the email, looked down and it was gone, Fortunately I’d rehearsed enough that I recalled 90-95 percent of the material so the talk went off fine.

Other than that it was eating, chatting with friends and sleeping, due to the dogs depriving me of sleep the week before. Overall, a fun weekend. Below, photos from this year’s Python-themed teapot race (I participated but was too busy trying to make sense of the controls to get an image.

Here’s the shirt for this year’s event.

A scene from the escape room puzzle challenge I participated in. I helped a little to figuring it out.

My friend Jolie Elder is an amazing knitter. Here’s her reverse double-knit scarf.

The puzzle below makes such pretty pieces I found it hard to think about putting it together.

I missed having TYG with me but it was a fun weekend. Rights to puzzle images remain property of current holder.

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What do smart people put on bulletin boards?

When I attended the National Mensa Gathering in Baltimore last year, I became fascinated browsing the bulletin boards — nothing revelatory, just the little glimpses into people’s lives and needs. See for yourself.

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May is off to a good start!

Will it stay in that groove? Don’t miss a single thrilling blog post to find out!

Monday was not particularly good as I was wiped out from a)Ravencon b)Culturequest, a Mensa general-knowledge contest that I competed in Sunday afternoon. Much as I’d have liked for all five of us to work together — Courtney, our leader, runs a tight ship — we had to do it over Zoom and we don’t work quite as smoothly. We wound up debating endlessly over the questions, slowing us down — it’s a timed quiz — and then I’d cut through the debate by pushing for an answer. A lot of mine were wrong. Oops. Though I did kill it on the literature section — more so, surprisingly, than film.

That left me exhausted on Monday. Tuesday, though, I finished a fun Local Reporter article about the new library planned for Carrboro and got started on future articles (always work ahead of deadline).

Wednesday I worked through the 1941-49 sections of Savage Adventures and got them done. Not completely: wherever I wasn’t sure how to interpret what I wrote or that it was an accurate synopsis, I made a note. Next week I’ll check the novels to make everything accurate and clear.

Thursday I sat down with Chapter Three of Let No Man Put Asunder. It’s the second big fight scene and a lot of my beta readers said it was less interesting than some of the conversations later in the chapter. I needed to change that, obviously. I needed to map it out so it worked logically. And I wanted to have more result from it than “we fought, we survived.” As Lester Dent says, action has to do more than move characters over the scenery. I studied the book Fight Write, browsed a few articles. Plotted the scene out in detail. Finally I went to work.

I think I succeeded. We’ll see what the writing group thinks, though it’ll be a while before it gets to them.

I also put in some work on the Ceaseless Way collaborative anthology and printed up the last section of Southern Discomfort. Didn’t quite get to work on it.

Oh, and I seriously worked to put the Pomodoro break-every-25-minutes approach to time management into action. While it’s hard to do exercises when I’m watching the pets (as I was most of the week) I can squeeze in five minutes every so often (ditto for their own exercises). I made my exercise goals for this week by working out on pomodoro breaks and I’m pleased with that.

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A teapot race

The theme of the Mensa event I attended earlier this month was Steampunk. I gave a talk on steampunk TV, focusing, of course, on Wild, Wild West. I covered other shows too, including Q.E.D., Brisco County Junior and The Secret Adventures of Jules Verne. There were other presentations, a “Blonde Bowl” quiz game (I did okay) and a teapot race. This is apparently a steampunk thing where you trick out a radio-controlled toy car with a teapot and then send it through an obstacle course. Behold:

As always, I had a great time. Bonus good news, all that travel, close personal contact, hours in the airport and I didn’t catch covid! Woot!

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American Airlines threw me off balance

Last weekend I went down to Greenville SC for their annual Mensa gathering. TYG, who would usually drive, stayed behind because after Plushie’s last injury she can’t bear the thought of him getting hurt when he’s with a dog-sitter who might not take care of him as well as we do (I miss traveling with her but I can’t say she doesn’t have a point). As she has no faith in my driving she convinced me to fly rather than drive the four hours. Much as I hate spending the money to fly, the trip down went smoothly, though I wound up traveling in the dark before dawn.

The trip back left me stuck for four or five hours in the Greensville-Spartansburg Airport as we waited for the plane. And waited. And waited. Below is the gate just minutes before one of the supposed boarding times.That the plane wasn’t anywhere near the gate was a clear sign we’d been denied, yet again. And the airport has a piss-poor selection of places to eat and no Starbucks — not that I drink coffee but at least they have decent tea. This place? The best I could find was Constant Comment.

Instead of getting at 3:30-4 in the afternoon and unwinding I got in 10:30. I spent a lot of Monday catching up on odds and ends and getting unwound which cost me most of the day. That threw off the rest of the week.

I did get the rewrite on the first chapter of Let No Man Put Asunder finished and started Ch.2. I did a lot of work for The Local Reporter — more time than I wanted to spend, due to feeling so off. But I did get in a story on new development and got an interview for my story for next week.

The rest of time I spent primarily on research reading. It was the right move, but disappointing. And next week I’m taking Monday off for my birthday so I lose another day.

Oh well. I intend to have a fun birthday, then apply myself with vigor. We’ll see how it goes. More photos from Mensa will go up soon.

I thought I’d wrap up with this 2019 photo of Wisp, when she was still an outside cat.

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Visionary Art!

When I traveled to the Mensa national gathering last month, I took an afternoon to visit the Baltimore Museum of Visionary Art. It’s a very odd mix: stuff that’s really cool, other stuff that verges on the “my kid could paint that!” stereotype of modern art. Of course I took photos so here are a few. Decide for yourself how visionary they are.#SFWApro. All rights to art remain with current creators (I apologize for not having any of the names).

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Neither door is real, but the farts are!

I like this image from Baltimore’s Museum of Visionary Arts, from my recent trip there during the Mensa National Gathering.This exhibit also amused me. It’s the work of a local Baltimore artist.#SFWApro. All rights to images remain with current holders. My apologies for not having the information to name the artists.

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This was another frustrating week

Last weekend was a blast. Thursday I flew up to the Mensa National Gathering in Baltimore.That’s the parking area outside the airport. It’s big and hard to figure out where the shuttles are, where you’d get a Lyft, etc., so I settled for an airport taxi. TYG was not with me but even with Wisp to care for she thought I should go rather than lose the room fee (too late to cancel) and the cost of both tickets.I had a great time catching up with friends, visiting the Museum of Visionary Art (photos to follow) and looking around the surrounding area. The hospitality suite, however, sucked: adequate meals but the snacks between meals (always a feature at Mensa gatherings) were limited to bread most of the time. And not particularly good bread. The “hot” water urn never provided water above Very Warm so I visited the local Starbucks a lot. At least the art on the wall was nice.And I must admit, after a couple of weeks with Wisp or the dogs around 24/7, having a room to myself felt great. I spent a lot of Thursday just lying around alone, unclenching.

The frustration started on the way home. Adverse weather pushed my arrival in Durham from 2 PM back to a little after 5 PM. I was in a rush so I just grabbed an airport taxi rather than contact a Lyft. BIG mistake: the guy entered the wrong address and took me way out of my way, adding another twenty minutes to my return home. And charged me $60 for the privilege. Lyft next time.

Wisp is still not sleeping at night, even with heavy doses of Gabapentin. That means I’m not sleeping which didn’t help my work any. Plus contractors, cat vet appointments … so another week with no writing done. I did pitch a local newspaper on a couple of stories — they’d asked me too — but I didn’t hear back.

On the plus side, I’d booked a flight home to Florida next week because my father looked to be in poor health. Turns out no, he’s doing okay so we’re back to a visit later in the year for his birthday. That’s a good thing because after this weekend at Congregate in Winston-Salem NC I’m done with traveling. And neither TYG nor I wanted her stuck with all three pets to manage for a week. But my cancellation insurance doesn’t cover “father’s not sick” so I’m out $400. However it looks like I’ll be able to get a lot of it back with a credit toward future flights so there’s that.

Next week I will do better. I have to because I don’t want to spend the rest of the summer getting nothing done. Not being between two different weekend trips will help, and I’ll also concentrate on keeping a regular schedule. Well, regular in the sense that if Wisp wakes me up at 12:30 I’ll put in a couple of hours instead of just fiddling around online, then adjust my daytime schedule accordingly.To leave on an up note, I sold one copy of Undead Sexist Cliches on Amazon and handsold a copy of 19-Infinity at the Gathering. Woot!

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My madcap Mensa weekend

By a fluke, my birthday last weekend coincided with the Greenville Mensa gathering this year. It’s the first time since 2019 they’ve been able to hold it. We went and it turned out to be a lot of fun. More than I expected actually: the turnout was good (better than the Atlanta gathering last September), multiple friends attended, I gave a talk about pirate movies (hence several of them turning up in my Saturday reviews lately) and we went out for great Indian food. The food in hospitality wasn’t as good as usual, alas, due to covid making them more restrictive about what can be served or left lying around.

Overall, though, an awesome weekend. And snuggling with TYG in the morning without dogs getting in-between was nice. The dogs had a great time in daycare, Wisp and Snowdrop got over having us absent for a couple of days (a neighbor put out food).

And I took photos. Here’s me in my pirate shirt.The mirror closet door often swung so that I’d see it when I came in, creating a weird optical illusion.There were pirates, of course—And more pirates.And general silliness.Traffic was miserable both ways and we kept wondering why one law firm had a half-dozen billboards, one after the other, in just a few miles. But there’s always the Gaffney peach.Best birthday I’ve had in a while.

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Two strange weekends in a row. But good strange

Labor Day weekend, as I mentioned before, I took off to chill after finishing Aliens are Here. But I don’t think I mentioned how strange it felt to not be doing anything for five days (Sept. 1-5). A little blogging, yes, but no other writing. I rarely take vacations that long and it’s always when I’m going somewhere, which means I don’t just lie around and read or take walks.

Of course, I did do things — shop for food, cook — but still, it was unbelievably relaxing to let myself off the hook for anything more than that. As TYG was out part of Saturday, I couldn’t do much because I had to keep an eye on the dogs. That helped me give myself permission, I think.

Then, last weekend, I attended my first Mensa event since 2019. It was the Atlanta Mensa gathering; I’d been invited because they had a time travel theme and the organizers wanted me to speak on time travel on film. How could I resist? Though work kept TYG away (we could probably have managed it, but by the time we knew that, I’d already had to book the flight).My talk went great, even though I managed to erase the outline I’d saved on my phone. Fortunately I’d practiced enough and know the material enough that I could do it even without notes. Beyond that I got to hang out with my fellow Mensans, eat some good food — the vegan meal Saturday night was so good, apparently even the meat-eaters in the Atlanta group wanted that restaurant to cater — and participated in a quiz or two. Didn’t win but one question asked for a Batman villain with a time-themed name. I gave them four (Clock, Clock King, Time Commander, Calendar Man).

I must admit, though, the socializing was a little overwhelming after so long without. Sure, I was at ConGregate and ConCarolinas this summer but cons are primarily about activities — selling books, sitting on panels — with socializing squeezed in wherever possible. In gatherings, the socializing’s the priority. I spent a lot of time re-energizing alone in my room.

Oh, I also got my first case of acid reflux in years, due to eating chocolate cheesecake late at night. With no other food in my stomach to cushion the shock. But it was very good cheesecake.

I had no problems with my flights though the airport was packed both times. I used to laugh at myself a little for always following the “get there two hours before the flight” standard. I don’t laugh so much any more.

Below, a closer look at that chocolate cheesecake (with a brownie on the side).

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